Hmm. What should I do?

Jesse · 12-17-2004, 03:44 PM

Ok. Let me make this very long story short.

Back in March I started dating this girl named Jen. She cheated on me, and then we broke up. Then after a couple weeks after I had removed myself completely from her life, she said she started missing me and all that. I guess she was pretty upset over what happened for a long time. I completely stopped talking to her for about..5 months. Completely removed her from my life.

Back in September, me and 2 other friends of mine went out to a small pond in my city, smoked cigars, and just had a man talk. And I felt really good about myself. So that night, I went home, unblocked Jen from my AIM list, and asked how she was doing. We talked for a while, talked a couple times on and off. Just remained friends. She told me quite a few times that she missed our relationship, and has shown plenty of remorse for what happened.

Also back in September, I got back together with Stephanie. I don't know why, but, it just wasn't working out between her and I. And we broke up a couple weeks ago, to much relief. The last month or so of our relationship was total hell. We weren't getting along, and we decided that we make better friends. And it was an easy thing to do. I'm glad the relationship is over, because it was just a living hell, every day.

Which brings me to this. Jen and I are talking a lot again. And just about every night on AIM she's been pretty much been telling me about how much she misses me, our relationship, my friends, my mother, my cat, our nights of Nick at Night til 5 in the morning. And, yea, I miss those things too. Her and I had a good relationship, until she messed up. She got along great with my friends and family. And we were very compatible.

Tonight her and I have made plans to watch Collateral at her house tonight.

Part of me feels like I shouldn't be spending ANY time with her at all, because of what happened back in May.

Another part of me wants to give her a 2nd chance, because I'm convinced that she's changed, and won't make a mistake like that again.

EH?

12-17-2004, 03:44 PM	#1
Jesse Administrator Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 812	Hmm. What should I do? Ok. Let me make this very long story short. Back in March I started dating this girl named Jen. She cheated on me, and then we broke up. Then after a couple weeks after I had removed myself completely from her life, she said she started missing me and all that. I guess she was pretty upset over what happened for a long time. I completely stopped talking to her for about..5 months. Completely removed her from my life. Back in September, me and 2 other friends of mine went out to a small pond in my city, smoked cigars, and just had a man talk. And I felt really good about myself. So that night, I went home, unblocked Jen from my AIM list, and asked how she was doing. We talked for a while, talked a couple times on and off. Just remained friends. She told me quite a few times that she missed our relationship, and has shown plenty of remorse for what happened. Also back in September, I got back together with Stephanie. I don't know why, but, it just wasn't working out between her and I. And we broke up a couple weeks ago, to much relief. The last month or so of our relationship was total hell. We weren't getting along, and we decided that we make better friends. And it was an easy thing to do. I'm glad the relationship is over, because it was just a living hell, every day. Which brings me to this. Jen and I are talking a lot again. And just about every night on AIM she's been pretty much been telling me about how much she misses me, our relationship, my friends, my mother, my cat, our nights of Nick at Night til 5 in the morning. And, yea, I miss those things too. Her and I had a good relationship, until she messed up. She got along great with my friends and family. And we were very compatible. Tonight her and I have made plans to watch Collateral at her house tonight. Part of me feels like I shouldn't be spending ANY time with her at all, because of what happened back in May. Another part of me wants to give her a 2nd chance, because I'm convinced that she's changed, and won't make a mistake like that again. EH?