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The solution to your problem is to get over this girl -- regardless of the situation. She doesn't sound like anybody who would be worth two shits, considering that she has absolutely zero regard for your feelings and for you. Just forget about her, I don't care if you say "it's hard" or whatever... Just stop giving a shit. Develope a healthy crush on a cute looking girl from one of your classes, or something like that.
This current girlfriend/exgirlfriend seems like a total waste of time. Even if she's good looking ... there's hundreds of thousands of good looking girls in the world
A couple of facts: Most if not all relationships where one person "wants to still be friends" -- the person doesn't really want to be friends. They feel as if they have an obligation to friendship to help the other person out. This never results in a real friendship (if it was a passionate relationship). A lot of people come up with exceptions, but usually the relationship was petty and stupid and hence why they can still be friends. The friendship is doomed, so there's no reason in going for it anyway.
Don't be afraid to be rude to this girl. She's being rude to you. Don't return her phone calls, don't pick up the phone if you're playing a videogame... don't call her 'just to talk' or any of that shit. There's no need to be curteous to her if she's being incourteous to you; there's no reason to worry about her feelings if she is incapable of worrying about your's.
Also, she owes you nothing--so don't get that into your head as some justification for thinking that you'll get back together. Neither of you owe the other anything.
It's over. Time to pack your bags. THere's other attractive girls... girls who are more appetizing than somebody who doesn't give two shits about somebody who cares about her.
Mike
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