[Plain Old Jane]

I dont know MS, I dont think the problem here is her power over you, I think its how much power you're allowing her to have over you. You'll come to realize that you are more important to yourself then she is.

This is the reason I didnt tranq' "chuck" the day I got that messege and recreate the torture scene from Resevior Dogs.

If you wanna make her pissed, let her think she doesnt mean that much to you anymore. (make a lunch date and then "forget about it." Forget to get her a Chanukka gift. compare her to her mother... yeowch, that last one is cruel...)