opinions!?
 

so....

what defines "sex" between two females?

lol, ah Liss, no!
*jealous*
but umm... good question... i would say that there's a similar trifurcation as with hetrosexual sex...
1 - heavy petting, tongue kissing, etc
2 - oral sex (for lesbo's i'd include intense nipple licking as oral sex, i think)... but i think eating out could count both as oral sex and normal sex, depending on intensity. Like if you just go down on a girl and give her head, that's just oral sex, but if you both get naked and there's lots of additional heavy petting and kissing and loving and 69'ing, that's sex. I guess the same goes for fingering and toy usage.
3. The above mentioned oral/digital/dildo sex... and if it's a double headed dildo it's definitely sex.


how's that sound? i think the line definitely gets blurred between oral sex and just sex, depending on the situation.


...why?

Whenever genitals are involved for either partner, I consider it sex, though thats probably technically wrong.

what about when i have dreams of your genitals?

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This usually does.

"Sex" would be anything using a sexual organ. Intercourse, on the other hand, presumes genital penetration ... and they do not have the right genitals to penetrate.

So, strict lesbians can have "Sex" by performing an act on or with a sexual organ. They cannot have sexual intercourse, though, biologically.

But they can always make love.

Didn't your mother teach you that you shouldn't jump to conclusions?

This weekend I attended part 2 of my best friend's "Wine and Lesbian Marathon Party." It's not nearly as exciting as it may sound: there is a showtime television series called "The L Word" and we are now in the middle of season 2 of the lives of a dozen lesbians in Hollywood.

With the combination of much too much wine and the fact that there are hetero, bi, and homo girls, and hetero guys in presence of a television showing explicit scenes spurs many debates about whether the phrase "I want to/can I/I will fuck you" is legitimate when exchanged between females. I am now expanding the issue globally out of curiousity. Everyone tends to give a different opinion. We argued for hours and I think I blacked out after drinking a bottle and a half of wine (I've never done that before, very scary!), but the debate continued the following morning.

I.
Like.
Fish.

Would you say that the guys in Queer as Folk *F* each other? Depending on your answer, the whole sex thing can only be legal by definition.. between male and fishmale.

Like lesbian sex is harmless and gay sex is messy and dangerous. The whole fluid and true-penetration thing makes all the difference.

The penetration is the whole question. Like one of the girls refers to herself as a virgin because she's never had sex with a guy; yet she states herself that she has had sex with numerous girls. So is she really a virgin?

where the hell is jep?

ssshhhhh .... it'll hear you

Dykes are gay.

She's a virgin if she's still into guys. She's a dyke if she's a dyke. But then again theres that whole hymen issue. If its gone, then thats also a safe bet that shes not a virgin... because someone could lose it to an errant finger or gearshift and still 'not have sex'. Also, could you answer and ask each question or answer with just the slightest hint of sultry and naive schoolgirl, please? Thanks so much. *fap x100*

Neil? Hymen's and Hyman's, please.

I"m still trying to resolve the Hyman issue, personally

The hymen has nothing to do with virginity, because most girls use tampons. The Hyman, I fear, has nothing to do with sexual intercourse in any way.

:)

What? I have EVERYTHING to do with sexual intercourse!
Especially with you, sweet thang

You guys are married, after all. Same as... me and two women.. Stormy being the first.. :sigh: Man, youth was a strange time.

I gotta say, I'd still bang you or even knock a few knuckle children off to you anytime, 'Melia.

I never busted my hymen until intercourse, even though I rode horses for a year, and generally used tampons. I only see tampons as a problem is people consider first penetration to be the loss of virginity.

Yeah I bled upon intercourse too