love problem

[Plain Old Jane]

hi guys, i am in need of advice.

you see last night, the gang was here in my awesome room at college, rutgers. we were listening to some sublime and passing around the peace pipe.

Backstory: this girl trish and i have been flirting for almost a full year now. totally all over eachother and neither of us smart or uninhibited enough to do anything about it.

Last night we did some shottys to eachother and a few times after we just stared at eachother in that way that if it happened in dawsons creek, you'd be like, awwh shit.

we both leaned in real close and finally kissed during a shotty. we were both kind of toasted so it surprised us both. I walked her out and held her hand and i asked her "whats going on here?" because

more backstory: shes dating someone already.

more more backstory: ive never been the other person before, its wierd and i am unfamiliar with this territory.

She said, i dunno. I apologized and said, i thought it was mutual, she said dont feel bad. and then she left for her sisters place while staring at me as she walked away. I was like, whoa, she likes me. cuz i didnt know.

Today, we came upstairs after imbibing some alcohol (seriously, i dont do substances at all, this is an exception cuz we just moved in and everyone misses eachother.) under the guise of watching snakes on a plane (AWESOME!) but i ended up looking at her and asking her whats going on again. She replied, i dunno... but it is mutual.. then she asks if she can kiss me.

... I said yes.. and we made out for quite a bit... before i said i cant let us do this... but we were so flirting all night again out while at the drum circle outside (complete with hookah) (btw, i turned into a total hippy)

Guys, ive never been in this place before... i need advice..

[Optimus Funk]

Optimus's drunk advie is....Go for it, love is love man, it is free and alcohols only opens the door it trows out the floormat of rationality, and think that she is with ANOTHER MAN!!!!, no way man I realize that everyone thinks that with eye contanct that you should fuck the girl on the spot, but please, you are saying that she should drop the man she is with for a look/kiss/make out please are we that juvenile? Tll her that you like her, and if you truely think she should be with someone else(i.e. you) then tell her! and not only that say break up wth bumbly fuck twat ass, and make with the lovin!, I havent always gone by my own drunk advice but it is so solid, and to the point you need to do it!, Also I would just like to take this time to say, women rule, you can vote too!, Bennie Jezoite!

[testtubebaby]

snakes on a plane, man. snakes on a plane.

[heX]

snakes on a plane, man. snakes on a plane.

have you seen snakes on a plane? i was gonna make a point not to see it but i might if anyone thinks it worth it.

[raublekick]

hey jep!

the only advice i can give is to just tell her how you feel. or at least weight it out, which hurts more: holding in emotions and watching someone you are into be with someone else, or tell them how they feel and get rejected? of course there is always the chance that things will work out for you :)

so what else is going on in your life?

[raublekick]

oh yeah, i should also mention that i tend not to follow my own advice

[Plain Old Jane]

lifes okay, going to a good school, living in an awesome dorm, next time you cats are in the jerz come on up. listen to some jimi and chill ykna? anyway. my life seems so complicated no matter what time of my life it is. this just weighs so heavily on my mind.

[squirrels2nuts]

insert tab a into slut b.

[thecreeper]

i dont have anything really constructive to say except go for what you want and hope the guy isn't a macho mother fucker.

[Liss]

I hate it when people cheat. I hate cheaters. I've been cheated on and it hurts worse than anything in the world. Tell her you like her, tell her if she likes you too she can make a choice.

[Jesse]

Yea, I hate cheaters as well. I won't even do anything with a girl if I know she has a boyfriend. I don't want to put anybody else through the pain of being cheated on.